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How to Reclaim Sanity & Start the New Year off Right

by Chautona Havig · Leave a Comment

I read fiction—a boatload of it. Mostly because I learn so well through story but also because I need that escape. However, what many people don’t know is that I also love a good non-fiction book. I love self-help, theological books on points of doctrine, historical memoirs and explorations—the works.

But when it comes to books to review, I almost exclusively choose fiction. Because of this, I have given my friend at Celebrate Lit permission to choose non-fiction books she thinks I should read.

Not too long ago, I chose one. By the title alone. I didn’t know what it was about—didn’t even bother to read it. There was just something about that title— Reclaiming Sanity. I mean, who wouldn’t want to find out what that was about?

Of course, when I got it and discovered it was written by a psychologist/psychiatrist, I winced. I tend not to be a big fan of what is often just “psychobabble” without Biblical context. Still, I couldn’t help but be intrigued. Who wouldn’t want their sanity back if there was hope, right?

How to Reclaim Sanity & Start the New Year off Right

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How to Reclaim Sanity & Start the New Year off Right

The answer? Easy. Read Reclaiming Sanity.

Look, I didn’t know what to expect with this book, but I was determined to get something out of it.

Oh, me of little faith.

Dr. Shaler writes a straightforward, compassionate book for anyone dealing with past or present trauma in his or her life. I’ve had some pretty traumatic things happen to me, but I’ve never been diagnosed with PTSD, and from her examples of what you might experience if you were someone dealing with that disorder, I don’t fit the criteria at all.

But I can see that Reclaiming Sanity has a lot of information that would help anyone who lives in this fallen world. And it’s not chock-full of psychobabble.

What it does have is Scripture applied where appropriate. Not once did I feel like it was “stretched to fit” the situation in that obnoxious “proof-texting” way that many authors are tempted to do. Hey, I tend to do it with myself sometimes, so this was particularly awesome.

While I did disagree with her use of one Scripture, it’s one universally misapplied (in my opinion and understanding) by people everywhere. You see it plastered on journals, t-shirts, and wall plaques. I kind of can’t complain about it, you know? And even though it is misapplied and stretched, it doesn’t mean that the words aren’t true. It just means it isn’t a “promise” to us specifically as we tend to treat it.

I digress.

Like most non-fiction books, the middle part is the BEST.

Have you ever noticed that? In fiction, if an author isn’t careful, the middle of the book can drag and be boring, but with non-fiction, it’s like authors do the old college essay format.

  1. This is what I’m going to teach you.
  2. I teach you.
  3. This is what I taught you.

That middle part just seems to have the most meat in all of my favorite non-fiction books. This one is no different.

In fact, the middle part of this book is so good that I will be recommending it to everyone I know.

It deals with anger and it’s a brilliant look at it. Biblical, straightforward, compassionate, but packs a punch, this section has workbook-style questions and really digs into anger. It shows how destructive anger is, how you can address it, and the truths and lies we tell ourselves about it.

And when you consider how PTSD holds hands with anger (understandably so), learning to deal with it is an important part of the healing process.

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Reconciliation is also a part of the middle of Reclaiming Sanity, and it’s beautiful.

One of the most impactful things I read had to do with a story about a woman’s relationship with a previously abusive mother. I loved how Dr. Shaler showed that reconciliation for this woman included spending some time with her mother, but setting boundaries that are both Biblical and health-giving. It was one of the few times I’ve ever seen someone talk about boundaries as a means of improving a relationship instead of protecting self alone.

The last third of the book—equally strong.

Unlike that “old college try,” this section also has quite a bit of helpful information for anyone, but it does go back to the more traumatic situations.

Dr. Shaler takes the time to show you how to create your own “mini retreat” for the purpose of walking through these issues and “reclaiming sanity” in the process. I expected to find this section more fluffy, but it wasn’t. The advice is solid, helpful, and yet not overwhelming in intensity.

What will you find in the pages of Reclaiming Sanity?

Common sense, for one. Spiritual encouragement and mentoring. Realistic psychological help rooted in the truths of Scripture.

And stories. You know how I love my stories. Dr. Shaler uses actual cases (and sometimes composite ones) to illustrate what she means. Not once did I feel like I was getting one of those cheesy “created-for-illustrative-purposes” stories. Instead, I found myself wanting to pray for the people involved.

That’s a pretty good feeling.

Recommended for people who have endured trauma that still affects their ability to cope with life. Also, if you have any anger problems at all, this book right here—so awesome. I can attest that many of the things she talks about are what I did the day I realized I was getting upset and yelling at my kids when I didn’t like or want to be that person. I was able to stop it. Cold. And I think Reclaiming Sanity would help others gain control as well.

Look, when I got my review copy, it came as a PDF. I was fine with that, but I wasn’t once I started reading… not so fine. I immediately went and dropped a paperback in my Amazon cart. This is one I want to own. I’ve no doubt that I’ll be sharing it. Often.  And yes, I’m off to read her next book, too.  Because I must (name that movie reference!).

And… as of the writing of this review, Reclaiming Sanity is just .99!  Grab it while you can!

Reclaiming Sanity CoverAbout the Book

With a girlfriend’s companionship and a professional counselor’s expertise, Dr. Laurel Shaler walks you through personal stories and biblical insights that shed light on daily and traumatic stress. In Reclaiming Sanity, she shows

  • How to find freedom from the past
  • Five myths about anger and how to overcome them
  • The antidote for nagging worry and sleepless nights
  • Ways to rebuild trust in others
  • How Christ gives true strength. Offering effective action steps toward reclaiming sanity, Dr. Shaler guides you through the healing process, whether you are dealing with a one-time traumatic event or years of hidden pain.
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Episode 264: A Chat with Romance Author, Sarah Monzon
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Finally getting a chance to chat with Sarah Monzon was a total delight, and learning all about her latest release, All’s Fair in Love and Christmas was equally awesome.  My copy is here and waiting for me to dive into the battle of the celebrations!  EEEP! Listen in to see what that even means!

Note: I sound like I’m underwater. We heard it during our interview, but I couldn’t make it behave and couldn’t fix it. Sorry!

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How Does an Intense Christmas Competition Lead to Love?

All’s Fair in Love and Christmas has so much going for it that I don’t know where to start! Fun mom who made our heroine’s childhood Christmases an international delight without ever leaving home?  Check!  Social anxiety adding to the stress of competing for a promotion?  Check?  Romcom hilarity?  Check, check?  And add to all that Sarah’s wonderful writing and delightful characterization?  I’m all in.

We also chatted about why she chose to write about a woman with social anxiety, her preferred reading methods, and some of my favorite books by her. For a refresher, those are The Isaac Project, 12 Days of Snowmen, and Book Nerds & Boyfriends (a collection of three novellas).

All’s Fair in Love and Christmas by Sarah Monzon

Two workplace rivals. One festive competition. And a romance that upends it all.

Every December two things are guaranteed for graphic designer Mackenzie Graham–Christmas celebrations and the annual promotion at her workplace. Those two things are by no means mutually exclusive. In fact, the better an employee is at harnessing the Christmas spirit, the more likely they’ll win the new job. With her social anxiety, Mackenzie never thought she’d be a contender in her company’s holiday competition, so how exactly has she found herself dueling her workplace crush with wrapping paper tubes and using tinsel as her weapon of choice for a much-needed raise?

Jeremy Fletcher’s life is meticulously planned out, including how to win this year’s promotion at work. Not only will the new position fulfill some of his career goals, but as a single guardian to his twin niece and nephew, he needs the salary increase to support his family. Jeremy has barely noticed Mackenzie Graham around the office, but now that she’s his rival, he can’t stop thinking about her. Her quirkiness intrigues him, and he’s afraid that if he can’t get his head on straight, the promotion isn’t the only thing he’ll end up losing to Mackenzie.

“Inspirational rom-com readers are going to love this one.”–BETHANY TURNER, bestselling author of The Do-Over

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